Gay loving

Some male lover men put up with a lot in their relationships. Their long-term partners will aggressively flirt with other men in front of them, go residence with a guy from the bar without any forewarning, sleep with ex-lovers without gaining consent from their current lover, or brag to their current boyfriends about the quality of their sex with strangers. Ouch.

Here’s what I find most concerning. Some gay men don’t experience they have a right to be upset about these behaviors. They’ll question me why they experience so jealous and how can I help them let go of their jealousy. They think that the gay community believes in sexual freedom and it isn’t cool or manly to object to their partner’s sexual behavior.

In other words, they experience shame for experiencing injure by the actions of their long-term partners.

Heterosexual couples get plenty of social support for treating their partners with respect when it comes to sex. Outrage is the characteristic social response when friends are told about broke relationship behavior among linear people. When gay men tell the same heartbreaking stories they are less likely to get a big response. LGBTQ

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