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Ever wanted to grasp the secrets to becoming a influence bottom? Want to know how to look after the bottoms in your life? Curious to give bottoming a try but not sure how to begin?
We can serve you become a better bottom! Here are some fast bottoming tips and tricks from ACON’s peer-workshop Booty Basics.
1. Lube
The arse does not produce its own lubrication.
This means that lube is really, really essential for any anal play. First, to stop damage to the internal lining of your arse. Second, to produce bottoming (and topping!) more pleasurable. And third, to assist protect it from infections.
Remember to utilize water or silicon-based lubes, as oil-based lubes can break condoms.
2. You
The second principle is YOU. This is the one that covers off all the mental and passionate aspects such as making sure you feel safe, making sure there is consent, that you feel comfortable, that you know your own bottoming limits and desires.
Remember, sex is best for everyone if all the people deeply interested are motivated by trying to maximise everyone’s pleasure safely. You can’t be a good girlfriend and you can’t experience pleasure for yourself if you’re stressed or uncomfortable (bottom or not!).
3. R
The “how to” of sex positions is imperative for any relationship. Mastering other gay sex positions not only heightens the experience but also provides a deeper connection with your partner both literally and figuratively. But before we start, if you’ve ever wondered, “What’s a top or bottom?” Don’t panic . These terms might be common within the LGBTQ+ group, but not everyday vernacular for everyone else, which is why we’ve set together an ever-growing list of Diverse terminology.
At Bespoke Surgical, we think about sex in completely different ways and by bringing science into sex, a new era of understanding will let improvement for everyone. Regardless of which gay anal sex positions you travel, it’s important to understand their differences:
- Affect the top and the bottom in different ways
- Bring out both submissive or aggressive characteristics of each person
- Require an understanding of both everyone’s positioning (height, penis curvature, and pelvic angle)
Little nuances and adjustments can make all the difference in terms of pleasure vs. pain, as does open and sincere communication. It’s key
How do same-sex couples have sex? How can they practice safer sex?
People who identify as womxn loving womxn, gay, bi or heterosexual can give and express pleasure in many ways. There isn’t just one way for two people to have sex, no matter what sex or sexual orientation they are.
What two people of the same sex do to have sex together depends on what feels good for them. Often, people think that sex is only putting a penis into a vagina, but that may not be the task that brings the most pleasure to the two people. This is true for heterosexual, pansexual, lesbian and gay people.
Males who identify as gay, bisexual or just do sexual things with other males may use their fingers (manual stimulation), mouths (oral sex) and various body parts to give and receive pleasure. They may kiss, touch each other’s bodies or touch the penis and other areas including the scrotum or the anus. Sometimes they use penises to penetrate the anal opening (anal sex).
Females who identify as queer woman, bisexual or just do sexual things with other females may touch each other’s genitals by using their fingers (manual stimulation), mouths (oral sex) and various body parts. They may peck, touch each other’s
The ins and outs of safer, greater sex.
I’m scared of bottoming
Most gay men will regard bottoming at some hour. However, the thought of doing it for the first time can be scary. Don’t let that put you off.
You may prefer to douche before bottoming, especially if indulging in deep arse act like fisting or with large dicks/toys. Use plain, clean water, preferably at body temperature. Avoid using shower attachments - the water pressure can be dangerous. You can gain douche bulbs online or from any good sex shop. Try not to go overboard and irritate the lining of your arse, as this can make you more vulnerable to STIs.
Get yourself relaxed with lots of foreplay like rimming or fingering. Some men do apply amyl nitrate (poppers) to relax the muscles around their arse but there are two major health warnings. Poppers:
- have been linked with an increased uncertainty of HIV transmission
- don’t mix with erection drugs enjoy Viagra and may bring about a heart attack.
Deep breathing is far safer, helps you to relax and relaxes the arse too.
Find a position that suits the size, angle and curvature of your partner’s dick. Any position where your knees are bent and drawn into your chest, w
The “how to” of sex positions is imperative for any relationship. Mastering other gay sex positions not only heightens the experience but also provides a deeper connection with your partner both literally and figuratively. But before we start, if you’ve ever wondered, “What’s a top or bottom?” Don’t panic . These terms might be common within the LGBTQ+ group, but not everyday vernacular for everyone else, which is why we’ve set together an ever-growing list of Diverse terminology.
At Bespoke Surgical, we think about sex in completely different ways and by bringing science into sex, a new era of understanding will let improvement for everyone. Regardless of which gay anal sex positions you travel, it’s important to understand their differences:
- Affect the top and the bottom in different ways
- Bring out both submissive or aggressive characteristics of each person
- Require an understanding of both everyone’s positioning (height, penis curvature, and pelvic angle)
Little nuances and adjustments can make all the difference in terms of pleasure vs. pain, as does open and sincere communication. It’s key
How do same-sex couples have sex? How can they practice safer sex?
People who identify as womxn loving womxn, gay, bi or heterosexual can give and express pleasure in many ways. There isn’t just one way for two people to have sex, no matter what sex or sexual orientation they are.
What two people of the same sex do to have sex together depends on what feels good for them. Often, people think that sex is only putting a penis into a vagina, but that may not be the task that brings the most pleasure to the two people. This is true for heterosexual, pansexual, lesbian and gay people.
Males who identify as gay, bisexual or just do sexual things with other males may use their fingers (manual stimulation), mouths (oral sex) and various body parts to give and receive pleasure. They may kiss, touch each other’s bodies or touch the penis and other areas including the scrotum or the anus. Sometimes they use penises to penetrate the anal opening (anal sex).
Females who identify as queer woman, bisexual or just do sexual things with other females may touch each other’s genitals by using their fingers (manual stimulation), mouths (oral sex) and various body parts. They may peck, touch each other’s
The ins and outs of safer, greater sex.
I’m scared of bottoming
Most gay men will regard bottoming at some hour. However, the thought of doing it for the first time can be scary. Don’t let that put you off.
You may prefer to douche before bottoming, especially if indulging in deep arse act like fisting or with large dicks/toys. Use plain, clean water, preferably at body temperature. Avoid using shower attachments - the water pressure can be dangerous. You can gain douche bulbs online or from any good sex shop. Try not to go overboard and irritate the lining of your arse, as this can make you more vulnerable to STIs.
Get yourself relaxed with lots of foreplay like rimming or fingering. Some men do apply amyl nitrate (poppers) to relax the muscles around their arse but there are two major health warnings. Poppers:
- have been linked with an increased uncertainty of HIV transmission
- don’t mix with erection drugs enjoy Viagra and may bring about a heart attack.
Deep breathing is far safer, helps you to relax and relaxes the arse too.
Find a position that suits the size, angle and curvature of your partner’s dick. Any position where your knees are bent and drawn into your chest, w